By Julie Meekins When I sat down to write this blog post, my goal was to give parents who suddenly found themselves responsible to navigate the education of their children at home some tips to not only survive but to do well. After completing the article, however, I realized that these tips work for all parents. If you are a parent who was intending to send your child to school but are thrust into educating at home, this is for you. If you are a parent of a child with special challenges of any kind, this is for you. If...
Helping to Reach for Highest Potential By Tom and Julie Meekins Champions4Parents.com There are so many facets to parenting a child with special needs. In the early days, we, like many parents were focused on getting a diagnosis and then defining what comes with that diagnosis. Then, as the days and months and years unraveled, we learned who Amy really was as an individual. Of course, this is ongoing because she, like all of us, is always growing and developing. For us, the diagnosis became less important and her needs, strengths, and abilities become the focus. Does that sound familiar?...
By Tom and Julie Meekins Champions4Parents.com As a leader (either as staff or as a volunteer) in special needs ministry, have you ever wondered if social media could be helpful to your families? We decided to put the idea to the test. A little over four years ago, we created a Facebook Group for the benefit of supporting special needs parents in our local area. Our Facebook Group is a secret one in which folks need to be invited to join. The invitations can come from members but the moderators need to approve those who want to join. In the...
Ephesians 6:10-18 In this world of the coronavirus or Covid-19, we are fighting an invisible enemy. This has changed the way we live our lives in a way that is totally different than at any time in history throughout the entire world. To defend ourselves from the virus, governments have set rules and requirements to keep us all healthy. We must wash our hands, use hand sanitizer, practice social distancing, avoid touching our faces, wear a mask, and stay home. Health care workers have a list of Personal Protection Equipment (PPE) to use as they care for the sick. This...
Tom and Julie Meekins Over the past few months, we have had the privilege of spending time with people who are doing ministry to families with special needs throughout the country and, really, the world. It is so wonderful to come together and discuss how to love God and love people better. Here are some ideas that have either come from folks in those discussions, or as we have observed others doing ministry, and a few that were created in our own minds as we participated in these brainstorms. That is what ministry is all about, right? Brainstorming, collaborating, trial...
Tom and Julie Meekins Points to Ponder: Children are not little adults. Whether typically developing or with developmental challenges, children do not process the same way we do. They do not have the benefit of years lived and therefore the scope of experiences that we do. We believe this is a very important understanding to have as we go about the mammoth task of raising children. We often expect things they cannot deliver because they are not at the level of understanding of adults. Children are sponges. All children have an innate desire to learn. What a joy is ours...
Steps to Calming the Chaos within You Tom and Julie Meekins Parents raising children with challenges have common and unique stresses. Worry Points: What are your particular worry points for your child and your family? Is it your child’s next developmental step? (No matter how old they are.) Crawling. Walking. Talking. Potty training. Learning to stay with adults and not darting away in public. Learning the alphabet. Learning to read. Learning to write letters and then words and sentences and paragraphs and essays. Understanding figures of speech (idioms). Sleeping better. Communication skills. Relationship skills. You know the list unique to...
Tom and Julie Meekins One thing that is always on our prayer list for special needs families is that they will build a community to support one another. A recent example of this happening in our world is that we were able to participate in a fun project with another special needs family. Lauren and Brandon are a special couple. They have three little boys, ages 8, 6 and 3. Their oldest has Autism. If you have followed our ministry for any length of time, you have seen us highlight the ministry Lauren founded and directs called Zach Speaks. (www.zachspeaksinc.org)....
Speaking Truth into the Heart, Mind, and Soul of your Child Combating Low Self Esteem, Negative Self Talk, and Low Motivation All of us at some time or another struggle with our self worth and where we fit in the family, in our jobs, with extended family, with our friends, at our church, etc. Some of our children struggle big time with self worth most of the time. The root cause of this can be a lot of things, but the important thing at this time is that you can speak truth into their hearts and minds and souls. Here...
Purposing our Days for Ministry Now what? Quarantine is not new now. What is next? During this time of quarantine and social distancing, what are you doing about ministry? How are you spending your ministry minutes and energy? Here are some things we have been inspired to practice and we thought you might benefit from them as well. Stay in the Word. This is a fantastic time to get even more firmly rooted in the Bible. Find online Bible studies that you can join or do personal journaling and Bible study on your own. If your church is doing online...